How to Protect Your Real Estate Assets During Divorce

Divorce can be one of life’s most emotionally charged experiences—and for high-net-worth individuals, it also becomes a financial crossroads. Real estate is often the most valuable shared asset in a marriage. Whether it’s a family home, a portfolio of investment properties, or a vacation estate, protecting your real estate interests during a divorce requires foresight, strategy, and the right team.

Here’s how to safeguard your real estate assets while navigating divorce with clarity and confidence.

1. Get Clear on What You Own

Start by gathering documentation:

• Titles and deeds

• Mortgage statements

• Property tax records

• Purchase contracts

• Appraisals or recent market valuations

Understanding whether the property is community or separate property is key. In California (a community property state), assets acquired during the marriage are typically split 50/50, but nuances like inheritance, premarital ownership, or property held in trusts can shift that equation.

2. Work with a Divorce-Savvy Real Estate Expert

Not all real estate agents are trained to handle the sensitivities and complexity of divorce. You need someone who understands:

• How to work with both parties neutrally and discreetly

• Timing sales to align with legal and emotional factors

• How to maximize value under pressure

• Coordinating with attorneys and mediators

As a certified divorce real estate specialist, I act as a neutral advocate to protect the equity and integrity of the transaction while helping you move forward.

3. Know When to Sell vs. Retain

Ask yourself:

• Do you want to keep the home—and can you afford to?

• Is it more strategic to sell now or later?

• Would a buyout or deferred sale agreement be fairer?

Your attorney and real estate advisor can model out the financial implications of each scenario. In many cases, a clean sale can offer emotional closure and financial clarity for both parties.

4. Get a Neutral Third-Party Appraisal

Don’t rely on guesses or Zestimate values. Hire a certified appraiser (or two) to provide objective market value. This helps prevent disputes and supports equitable division of assets.

5. Consider Tax Implications

Capital gains tax, mortgage interest deductions, and property transfers during divorce can have lasting consequences. Always consult a tax advisor before finalizing your decision.

6. Keep Emotions Out of the Transaction

Easier said than done—but critical. Real estate should be approached as a business asset, not a battleground. A skilled real estate professional can act as a buffer, helping you make sound decisions based on facts, not feelings.

7. Plan for What’s Next

Whether you’ll be buying, renting, or relocating, you deserve a soft landing. My team and I can help you transition smoothly, with curated options that reflect your lifestyle, goals, and fresh start.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is never easy—but protecting your real estate assets doesn’t have to be messy. With the right team and strategy in place, you can preserve your wealth, maintain dignity, and move forward with confidence.

If you’re navigating divorce and have questions about your real estate options, I’m here to help—compassionately, discreetly, and with your best interests at heart.

Bree Bornstein
Luxury Realtor | Certified Divorce Real Estate Specialist
www.breebornstein.com
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